Every year in the month of August, Sahas Foundation launches a campaign exploring the gender stereotypes and discrimination faced by young women and girls in India. This month signifies a crucial historical moment –India after years of struggles and sacrifices became Independent country, freeing itself from the clutches of colonial rule of British Empire. While our country will be completing 78 years of Independence, there is always this thought lingering and nagging in my mind as to what does this independence means to me and for my fellow Indians especially the girls and women I work with in the rural areas?
With
this thought, we at Sahas launched ‘Azadi campaign’ exploring the meaning of
freedom for ourselves, remembering our roots and ideologies that facilitated
the freedom struggle, learning about the social reformers and revolutionaries
like Rabindranath Tagore, Baba Saheb Ambedkar, Jyotiba Phule and Savitribai
Phule and then creating a safe space in the community for the girls to examine
what ‘Azadi’ means to them.
After
initiating the online campaign, we facilitated a workshop on ‘Azadi’ with
Sahasi girls. The session started with brief introduction, agreements and poem
‘Where Mind is without fear’ by Rabindranath Tagore. This was followed by mind
map on ‘Azadi’; few responses were –
‘To
live freely’
‘I
am able to go wherever I want to’
‘To
be able to do things without any fear’
‘To
be able to do things on my own, without listening to others or their
instructions’
This
was followed by storytelling session where the girls read out the stories of
Baba Saheb Ambedkar, Savitribai Phule and Jyotiba Phule aloud. Few of things
shared by girls –
‘We
mustn’t discriminate people based on their caste or gender’
‘The
social work is a challenging job, people will always oppose it’
‘Education
is very important’
We
as Sahas team could relate and resonate to each and every word from the story
of Savitribai Phule, as even after so many years working on girls education and
their rights is so challenging. We have been subjected to verbal abuse, gossips
behind our backs, drunk men and boys have created unnecessary conflicts and
despite our efforts the mothers still don’t allow girls to come to programs. It
was equally amazing to see that even the girls affirmed that our journey is
quite similar to the pioneer of feminism in India. We are honored to walk on
the path laid by social reformers and feminist like Savitribai Phule.
The
girls enjoyed and loved the poetry by Kamla Bhasin and this acted as an
inspiration for them to write Azadi slogans –
‘Khulkar
jeena, hawao mein udhna hai, yehi hamara nara hai’
‘Ladhkiya
bhi ladhko ke sath kadam milakar chal sakti hai’
‘Hum
ladhkiyo ka yeh hai kehna, anpadh banker kabhi na rehna’
‘Apni
marzi se jeena aur kaam karna hai hamara adhikar’
‘Padhi
likhi ladhki, roshni ghar ki’
‘Hamein
kisi se darr kar nahi hai jeena, yehi hai nara hamara’
All
of us had chocolates to celebrate Independence Day. We also organized race
competition for children and young girls where they enjoyed a lot.
For
us, Azadi also means inclusion, so we went to the house of young girl with
disability, had brief conversation and provided her with a story book by
Premchand. Then we went to the house of young boy with cerebral palsy who has
been part of our program since last December. It was beautiful experience to
see him all dressed up, clean shaven and arriving on wheel chair. We have been
working so hard to arrange this for him so that he can access things and places
without depending on others. Two of the Sahasi Girls read story of Baba Saheb
Ambedkar. Slowly different members of his family joined in to listen to the
story and engage in the conversation. His mother said that this is also given
by god, we have to just go with it. Our facilitator interjected here because
this line of thought can be dangerous, once we believe that this is all by god
we look away from the discrimination and violence that people do based on
different identities. Having a disability, or belonging to a particular caste,
class or gender must not be license or used as tool by others to justify their
acts of violence. This was strongly emphasized by one of our team members. Later,
we celebrated Independence day by pining the flag and distributing chocolates.
At
the same time, a woman with two girls arrived asking us to help her with their
school fees. It is unfortunate that we were about to get her elder daughter
admitted in nearby school but before that the family got her married. She was
merely 14 years old. I asked the mother at what age she was married, she smiled
and said she was about the same age as her daughter. I was angry, how could she
do the same when she has lived a harrowing life herself. Unfortunately she
showed no remorse, instead she laughed. One of our facilitator got frustrated
and asked her as to what made her laugh? Like subjecting your daughter to the
same miserable life as she has lived – does that seem like a joke? Why are
daughters treated like garbage, if they are so disposable then you have no
right to give them birth! These instances though make us feel bad but motivate
us to keep working to protect and support the girls from early marriage.
With
this Azadi campaign, our team stands strongly on the values of Baba Saheb
Ambedkar, Savitribai Phule, Jyotiba Phule and the constitution of India. We are
committed to building safer, inclusive society where people are not judged, discriminated
or violated just because of who they are.
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